When I first started doing boudoir photography, I didn’t know exactly how deeply it would affect the women I worked with. It’s easy to assume that boudoir shoots are all about looking sexy or trying to impress someone else. But what I’ve seen time and time again is that boudoir is so much more than that—it’s a celebration of self, a reclaiming of confidence, and, honestly, a gift that you give yourself.
I’ve had the privilege of photographing women from all walks of life, and regardless of age, shape, size, or background, the transformation I witness throughout the boudoir experience is nothing short of magical. So, I’m here to tell you why I believe every woman should experience a boudoir photo shoot at least once in her life. Trust me, it’s a journey you won’t regret.
Boudoir Helps You Reconnect with Your Confidence
Let’s be real: life happens. We get busy, we have kids, we work hard, and somewhere along the way, we often forget just how amazing we are. We’re so used to caring for everyone else that we start to lose sight of our own worth. Boudoir photography is an incredible way to hit the pause button and truly reconnect with yourself.
When you’re in front of the camera, the focus is all on YOU. No distractions, no other responsibilities—just you, in all your glory. And, as you start to see yourself through a different lens, you begin to remember just how beautiful and powerful you really are. It’s like a confidence booster shot for your soul, and it stays with you long after the session.
It’s a Powerful Act of Self-Love
We often hear about self-love and self-care, but how many of us actually take the time to practice them? Boudoir photography is one of the most intimate ways to love yourself. You’re investing in yourself—your self-esteem, your confidence, and your sense of self-worth. You’re acknowledging that you deserve to feel beautiful, empowered, and celebrated, no matter where you’re at in your life.
Taking time for yourself and doing something like this is an act of self-love that can shift your mindset in profound ways. It reminds you that you deserve to feel good about yourself and that you are worth all the love, attention, and care you give to others.
Boudoir Is for Every Woman
I often hear from women who think boudoir photography is only for a certain “type” of woman—someone young, skinny, or conventionally beautiful. I want to debunk that myth right now. Boudoir is for every woman. It’s for the moms, the grandmas, the women with stretch marks, the women with scars, the women with a little extra weight, and the women who’ve gone through some major life changes.
Boudoir is about showcasing you as you are today. It’s about celebrating your uniqueness and beauty, whatever form that may take. There’s no one-size-fits-all when it comes to boudoir. The real beauty comes in embracing who you are right now, not who you think you should be.
Boudoir Empowers You to Be Vulnerable
I know the idea of being vulnerable in front of a camera can be terrifying for some women. I hear it all the time: “I don’t like how I look” or “I’m not sure I could ever feel comfortable in front of a camera.” It’s totally normal to feel that way! But what I can promise you is that vulnerability can be incredibly freeing.
Once you allow yourself to be vulnerable during your boudoir shoot, something magical happens. You start to shed those layers of insecurity and doubt. You begin to feel more comfortable in your own skin, and that’s when the magic of boudoir happens. I’ll guide you through the entire process, helping you find your most flattering angles, make you feel at ease, and ultimately, help you tap into that fierce, unapologetic version of yourself that you didn’t even know was there.
Boudoir Is a Celebration of Your Journey
A boudoir session is more than just beautiful photos—it’s a celebration of where you’ve been, where you are, and where you’re going. We all go through different phases in life, and boudoir is a great way to commemorate your growth. Whether you’re celebrating a new chapter, a milestone, or simply your own personal evolution, boudoir is a great way to mark that moment in time.
Maybe you’ve recently overcome a struggle, gotten out of a toxic relationship, or made a major life change. Boudoir photography can be a powerful way to honor your journey and show yourself just how far you’ve come. It’s like a snapshot of your strength, resilience, and beauty, captured in a single, powerful moment.
You Deserve to Feel Sexy and Confident—Just Because
One of the most common reasons women give for wanting to do a boudoir shoot is to do something special for their partner. And while that’s an amazing reason (trust me, your partner will LOVE the photos!), I want to remind you that boudoir is just as much about YOU as it is about anyone else. You deserve to feel sexy, confident, and empowered—just because you are YOU.
It’s so easy to get caught up in society’s standards of beauty or feel like we have to look a certain way to be desirable. Boudoir photography is about rejecting all of that. It’s about embracing your uniqueness and celebrating your beauty in a way that’s all about you—and you alone.
Final Thoughts: You’re Worth It
If you’ve been thinking about doing a boudoir shoot but have been putting it off, I want you to know that you are more than worthy of this experience. It’s a gift you give yourself—a chance to reconnect with your confidence, celebrate who you are, and feel like the stunning woman you truly are.
I’ve had the privilege of photographing many women who came to their boudoir session unsure of themselves, only to leave with a newfound sense of self-love and empowerment. It’s an experience that stays with you, long after you’ve walked away from the shoot.
So, what are you waiting for? Boudoir photography is a beautiful, transformative experience that every woman deserves to have at least once in her life. It’s time to embrace your beauty, your power, and your sensuality. You’re worth it.
xo,
Critsey