Let’s be real for a second—we all have moments where we look in the mirror and focus on everything we wish we could change. Maybe it’s that little extra softness around the middle, or the way one eyebrow never quite matches the other. It’s human. But here’s what I’ve learned after years of photographing women of all shapes, sizes, ages, and walks of life: the things you see as “flaws” are often the very things that make you uniquely, breathtakingly you.
The Transformative Impact of a Boudoir
If you’ve ever thought about doing a boudoir photoshoot but hesitated because you felt like you needed to “lose a few pounds first” or “get in shape,” let me tell you—you’re perfect exactly as you are. And trust me, once you see yourself through my lens, you’ll start to believe it too. Boudoir photography isn’t just about the photos; it’s about the experience.And that experience? It’s transformative.
It’s Not Just About the Photos—It’s About the Process
When most people think about boudoir photography, they imagine the final product: the stunning images that capture them looking glamorous and confident. But the journey to get there is just as important. From the moment you book your session, something starts to shift. It’s a decision to prioritize yourself, maybe for the first time in a long time. It’s permission to step out of your comfort zone and explore a side of yourself that’s been quietly waiting to shine.
The day of your shoot is where the magic really happens. Picture this: you walk into my studio, nervous but excited, and are greeted with a warm welcome and maybe a glass of bubbly to calm the nerves. My team and I make sure you feel like a total VIP from the moment you arrive. Professional hair and makeup artists enhance your natural beauty—not to change you, but to make you feel like the absolute best version of yourself.
And then we start shooting. At first, you might feel a little unsure (that’s completely normal!), but within minutes, something incredible happens. As I guide you through poses and show you a few sneak peeks on the back of the camera, you start to see yourself the way others see you—strong, beautiful, and undeniably sexy. The transformation in your confidence is almost tangible. By the end of the session, you’ll be strutting out like you just walked a runway.
Embracing Your Body, Exactly as It Is
One of the most powerful things about boudoir photography is that it helps you embrace your body just as it is. Society’s beauty standards are constantly shifting, and it’s exhausting trying to keep up. But here’s the thing: you don’t need to change a single thing to be worthy of love, admiration, and celebration.
I’ve photographed women in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, and beyond. I’ve photographed mothers whose bodies tell the story of bringing life into the world, women who have battled illnesses and come out stronger on the other side, and women who simply wanted to do something bold and beautiful for themselves. Every single one of them walked away from their session feeling more confident, more self-assured, and more connected to their own unique beauty.
The Ripple Effect of Confidence
The impact of a boudoir session doesn’t end when you leave the studio. The confidence boost you get from seeing yourself in a new light has a way of spilling over into other areas of your life. Maybe it’s how you carry yourself at work, speaking up in that meeting you’d normally sit quietly through. Maybe it’s how you interact with your partner, feeling more secure and open to intimacy. Or maybe it’s simply the way you start looking in the mirror and smiling instead of critiquing.
I’ve had clients tell me that their boudoir photos helped them through some of life’s toughest moments. One woman shared that after a difficult divorce, her session reminded her of her worth and gave her the courage to start fresh. Another client booked a shoot to celebrate turning 50, and she left feeling more vibrant and alive than ever before. These stories are why I do what I do.
Why Self-Love Isn’t Selfish
Let’s talk about self-love for a second. Somewhere along the way, many of us were taught that putting ourselves first is selfish. But here’s the truth: you can’t pour from an empty cup. Taking time to invest in yourself—whether it’s through a boudoir session, a solo trip, or even just a quiet afternoon with a good book—isn’t selfish; it’s essential.
A boudoir session is an act of self-love that lasts far beyond the day of the shoot. Every time you look at your photos, you’ll be reminded of your strength, your beauty, and your worth. It’s a gift you give to yourself, and trust me, you’re worth it.
Let’s Celebrate You
If you’ve been on the fence about booking a boudoir session, consider this your sign. You don’t need to wait until you hit a certain milestone or achieve some arbitrary goal. You are worthy of celebrating right now, exactly as you are.
Are you ready for your transformative impact?? Let’s create something beautiful together. Let’s capture the real, unfiltered, unapologetically amazing you. Because you deserve to see yourself the way the world sees you—as nothing short of extraordinary.
Ready to take that first step? Let’s chat. I promise, it’ll be one of the most empowering things you’ve ever done. And who knows? You might just walk away with a newfound love for the person staring back at you in the mirror. And isn’t that what it’s all about?
xo, Critsey