Hey lovely,
I hear it all the time—”I’d love to do a boudoir shoot, but I’m not a model.”
Let me stop you right there.
You do not need to be a model to have a stunning, empowering, confidence-boosting boudoir session. In fact, the vast majority of women I photograph are not models. They’re moms, teachers, nurses, entrepreneurs, partners, caretakers, and badass humans who are just like you—beautiful, strong, and ready to do something amazing for themselves (even if it scares them a little).
If you’ve ever scrolled through boudoir photos thinking, “I could never look like that,” I’m here to tell you: you absolutely can. You don’t need modeling experience. You don’t need to know how to pose. You don’t need to be a certain size or shape. All you need to bring is you—exactly as you are.
You’re Not Alone in Front of the Camera
One of the first things clients say when they walk into the studio is, “I have no idea what I’m doing!” And I smile, because that’s totally normal—and it’s exactly what I’m here for.
My job as your photographer is to guide you every step of the way. You don’t have to worry about how to pose or where to look. I’ll walk you through every single movement—how to tilt your chin, where to place your hands, how to arch your back—so you always feel confident and never feel awkward.
And I promise, I will never leave you hanging. I’m your biggest cheerleader, your hype girl, and your posing coach all in one. You’ll be amazed how quickly you forget those nerves once we get started.
It’s Not About Perfection—It’s About Emotion
Modeling is about selling a product. Boudoir photography—especially the way I do it—is about capturing a feeling.
This experience is about celebrating who you are in this very moment. It’s about vulnerability and strength. It’s about playfulness, confidence, and softness all wrapped into one. We’re not chasing perfection—we’re honoring authenticity. And honestly? That’s way more powerful than anything you’ll see on a magazine cover.
Boudoir isn’t about pretending to be someone else. It’s about uncovering who you already are. And once you see yourself through my lens, you’ll finally understand just how stunning you’ve always been.
Every Body Is a Boudoir Body
One of the biggest myths I hear (and it seriously needs to go!) is that you have to look a certain way to “pull off” boudoir. NOPE.
You don’t need to lose weight. You don’t need a six-pack. You don’t need to be tall or curvy or petite or anything other than who you are right now.
I’ve photographed women of all sizes, shapes, ages, and backgrounds. And every single one of them walked away with jaw-dropping images that reflected their unique beauty. Because boudoir isn’t one-size-fits-all—it’s tailored to YOU.
Whether you’re celebrating a milestone, stepping into your power, or just wanting to do something bold for yourself, your body is worthy of being photographed exactly as it is.
Your Confidence Doesn’t Need to Be Perfect
Here’s the truth: most women come to me nervous and unsure. You’re not expected to show up confident—confidence is something we build together during the session.
You’d be amazed what happens when you see yourself through someone else’s eyes—someone who sees your beauty, your fire, your strength. I’ve seen women walk in quietly and walk out like they could take over the world. That shift? It’s real. And it’s incredible to witness.
So if you’re feeling self-conscious or scared, that’s okay. You’re human. Just don’t let that stop you from doing something that has the power to transform how you see yourself.
This Is an Experience Just for You
At Couture Boudoir®, your session is all about creating a space where you feel safe, supported, and celebrated. We’ll talk beforehand about your comfort level, your vision, your style. Want soft and romantic? We can do that. Prefer bold and fierce? Let’s go for it.
I’ll help you choose the perfect wardrobe that flatters your body and makes you feel amazing. And on the day of your shoot, you’ll get professional hair and makeup to elevate the experience and help you relax into your goddess energy.
You’ll never be rushed. You’ll never be judged. This is your time, your moment—and I’ll be there to help you own every second of it.
The Photos Are the Cherry on Top
Yes, the photos are breathtaking (and trust me, you’ll want to look at them a hundred times). But what’s even more powerful is how you feel afterward. That unshakable sense of pride. The surprise when you realize how beautiful you look. The joy of seeing yourself as strong, sexy, and unapologetically YOU.
So many of my clients tell me, “I wish I had done this sooner,” or “This was the best gift I’ve ever given myself.” And honestly, I couldn’t agree more.
You deserve to feel empowered, confident, and radiant—whether you’re 25 or 55, size 2 or 22. You don’t need to be a model. You just need to be you.
So stop doubting yourself. You’re ready. You’re enough. And I promise, once you step in front of the camera, you’ll realize you had it in you all along.
xo,
Critsey
