can’t even tell you how many times I’ve heard women say, “I’ll book a boudoir session when I lose a little weight” or “I’m just not photogenic enough for something like that.” And every time, I gently remind them that boudoir photography isn’t about being a certain size, looking like a model, or waiting for the “perfect” moment. It’s about celebrating who you are right now—flaws, curves, freckles, scars, and all.
Boudoir is about seeing yourself the way the world sees you: beautiful, strong, and completely worthy of love—especially your own. And if you’ve never experienced it, I promise you, it’s more than just a photo session. It’s an empowering journey that can shift the way you see yourself in the best possible way.
Boudoir Photography Is for Every Woman
I mean it when I say that boudoir photography is for EVERY woman. It doesn’t matter if you’re in your 20s, 40s, 60s, or beyond. It doesn’t matter if you’re a mom, a businesswoman, a free spirit, or all of the above. Boudoir is for every single woman who wants to embrace her beauty, feel confident, and step into her power.
I’ve photographed women from all walks of life—women who have never done anything like this before, women who walked in feeling nervous, and women who didn’t think they could ever feel sexy in front of a camera. And guess what? Every single one of them left feeling amazing. They saw themselves in a new light, and that’s the magic of boudoir.
How Boudoir Boosts Confidence
There’s something incredibly powerful about stepping outside your comfort zone, getting glammed up, and allowing yourself to be celebrated. Here’s how boudoir photography helps boost confidence in ways you might not expect:
1. You See Yourself Differently
We all have insecurities. Trust me, even the most confident women I photograph have something they’re self-conscious about. But the moment you see your photos, you realize how incredibly beautiful you are—just as you are. You stop picking apart the things you don’t like and start appreciating the things that make you unique.
2. It’s an Act of Self-Love
Booking a boudoir session is like saying, “I deserve to feel good about myself.” And you absolutely do. It’s a reminder that your beauty isn’t defined by anyone else’s standards. It’s yours to own, embrace, and celebrate.
3. It Pushes You Out of Your Comfort Zone—in the Best Way
Doing something new and a little bit daring can be life-changing. The confidence you gain from boudoir photography doesn’t just stay in the studio—it carries over into other parts of your life. You start standing a little taller, speaking a little more boldly, and feeling more at home in your own skin.
The Self-Love Transformation
Boudoir photography isn’t just about the final images—it’s about how you feel throughout the experience. From the moment you decide to book your session to the moment you see your photos, something shifts inside you. You start to appreciate yourself more. You start to see your own worth.
I’ve had women tell me that their boudoir session helped them heal after a breakup, regain confidence after having children, or finally embrace a body they spent years being too critical of. It’s about so much more than just looking sexy—it’s about feeling beautiful, powerful, and enough.
You Deserve This Experience
If you’ve been thinking about doing a boudoir session but keep finding reasons to put it off, consider this your sign to go for it. You don’t need to lose weight. You don’t need to wait for a special occasion. You don’t need to have a reason other than the fact that you are worthy of being celebrated.
So, if you’re ready to see yourself in a whole new way, to fall in love with the person you see in the mirror, and to walk away feeling like the gorgeous, confident woman you are—then let’s do this. I promise you, the experience will stay with you long after the session is over.
xo,
Critsey