Being chosen as a boudoir photographer by another photographer — makes me feel like I’ve just won an Oscar every time it happens. Seriously, if there’s a greater compliment in this line of work, I haven’t found it yet. It’s like being told by a Michelin-star chef that your cooking is their favorite. Total pinch-me moment.
But why is it such a big deal? Well, I’m about to spill the tea on why this is so close to my heart and why it’s proof that boudoir is so much more than pretty pictures. Whether you’re a fellow photographer or just curious about why boudoir matters, buckle up—I’ve got stories to tell and a bit of a love letter to this art form to share.
The Ultimate Validation
Let’s be real: photographers are picky. We notice lighting, angles, composition—all the things that most people just see as “nice” or “good vibes.” So when a photographer decides I’m the one they trust with their boudoir shoot? That’s not just a compliment. That’s a standing ovation from someone who knows exactly how much goes into creating stunning imagery.
It’s not just about technical skill, though. Sure, knowing your way around a camera is crucial, but boudoir is about so much more than shutter speeds and F-stops. It’s about connection. Vulnerability. Trust. And when someone who understands that chooses me, it’s a reminder that the magic we create together is bigger than the sum of its parts.
The Pressure Is Real (But So Is the Reward)
Let me tell you, the first time a photographer reached out to me for their own boudoir session, I panicked a little. Okay, maybe a lot. There’s a certain level of expectation when your client knows what goes into creating an image.
But here’s what I’ve learned: the pressure isn’t a bad thing. It’s a push to do what I do best—create an experience that goes beyond posing and pictures. Photographers already know what it’s like to be behind the camera. My job is to show them how empowering it feels to be in front of it.
And let me just say, there is nothing like seeing a fellow creative completely let go, trust the process, and embrace their own beauty. It’s a moment of pure magic every single time.
Understanding the Vulnerability
Boudoir photography is deeply personal. For anyone stepping in front of the camera, there’s a mix of excitement and nerves. But for photographers? It’s a whole other level. We’re used to directing, controlling, and curating—being the one in charge. Surrendering that control and being vulnerable? That’s a big deal.
As someone who lives and breathes boudoir, I know how to create a safe space for every single person who walks through my studio doors. But when it’s another photographer, I feel an even deeper sense of responsibility to honor their trust. It’s not just about taking beautiful photos—it’s about making them feel seen, celebrated, and empowered.
Why Boudoir Is for Everyone (Yes, Even Photographers)
I often hear photographers say, “I’ve always wanted to do a boudoir shoot, but…” You know the excuses: I don’t have the time. I need to lose a few pounds. I’m always behind the camera, not in front of it. Sound familiar?
Here’s the thing: boudoir isn’t about perfection. It’s about embracing who you are, right here, right now. It’s about seeing yourself the way others see you—beautiful, powerful, and worthy.
And for photographers who spend so much time capturing other people’s stories, it’s a chance to tell your own. To step into the spotlight and remind yourself why you fell in love with photography in the first place.
What I’ve Learned from Photographing Other Photographers
Every time I photograph another photographer, I come away with a new appreciation for this art form. It’s a reminder that boudoir isn’t just about creating images—it’s about creating experiences.
I’ve learned that even the most confident photographers have insecurities. I’ve learned that vulnerability is a superpower. And I’ve learned that when you trust someone else to hold space for you, incredible things can happen.
A Word to My Fellow Creatives
To all the photographers out there who have trusted me with their boudoir sessions: thank you. You’ve reminded me why I do what I do. You’ve shown me the beauty of stepping out of your comfort zone. And you’ve inspired me to keep pushing boundaries, both for myself and for my clients.
And to anyone reading this who’s thinking about booking a boudoir session—whether you’re a photographer, an artist, or someone who’s never picked up a camera in your life—I hope this inspires you to take the leap. Because boudoir isn’t just about photos. It’s about celebrating yourself in a way you’ll never forget.
Let’s Create Something Beautiful Together
If you’re a photographer considering a boudoir shoot, I see you. I know how much this moment means. And I promise you, it’s worth it. Let me show you how incredible you already are.
Ready to take the plunge? Let’s make it happen. Because whether you’re behind the camera or in front of it, you deserve to feel like the work of art you are.
With love,
Critsey
Owner & Lead Photographer of Couture Boudoir®