Have you ever had a moment so special, so impactful, that it stayed with you forever? Maybe it was something big like a milestone celebration, or maybe it was a quiet moment of pure joy and self-love. These are what I like to call core memories—the ones that we tuck into our hearts and revisit when we need a little boost.
As a boudoir photographer, I’m lucky to witness and create these moments for women every single day. And I have to say, a boudoir session is the perfect opportunity to create a core memory that’s all about you. It’s not just about taking beautiful photos (although we definitely do that); it’s about capturing how you feel in that moment—powerful, confident, radiant, and unapologetically yourself.
Why Boudoir Feels So Memorable
When was the last time you truly celebrated yourself? Not because of a birthday, a promotion, or a wedding—just because you deserve it. Boudoir photography gives you that chance. It’s a little slice of time dedicated to embracing and honoring yourself, flaws and all.
Here’s the thing: life moves fast. We spend so much time focusing on what’s next—our to-do lists, responsibilities, and goals—that we often forget to stop and appreciate who we are right now. Boudoir slows you down. It asks you to step into the moment, to focus on yourself, and to celebrate everything that makes you, you.
And that feeling? It’s unforgettable.
Capturing a Version of You That’s Timeless
One of the reasons boudoir creates such a lasting memory is because it captures a version of you that’s timeless. You might do a session to mark a specific occasion—like a big birthday, a fitness journey, or even just because—but the confidence and beauty that shine through those images will never feel tied to a single moment.
When you look back at your photos years from now, you won’t just see what you looked like—you’ll remember how you felt. You’ll remember stepping out of your comfort zone, embracing your body, and allowing yourself to shine.
A Day That’s All About You
For so many women, boudoir isn’t just about the final photos—it’s about the experience itself. It’s about walking into the studio feeling a little nervous (totally normal, by the way!) and walking out feeling like you just conquered the world.
The day of your session is your chance to be pampered and celebrated. From the moment you arrive, it’s all about you. We’ll start with professional hair and makeup to make you feel like the absolute goddess you are. Then, we’ll choose the perfect outfits (or lack thereof!) that make you feel confident and sexy. And don’t worry if you’re not sure how to pose—I’ll guide you every step of the way.
By the time we’re done, you’ll feel like the star of your own movie. And let me tell you, that feeling sticks with you.
Creating a Core Memory for the Future You
I often hear from clients who say their boudoir session was more than just a photoshoot—it was a turning point. For some, it marked the start of a self-love journey. For others, it reminded them of their strength during a tough time. And for many, it was simply a joyful, empowering experience that they’ll carry with them forever.
When you create a core memory through boudoir, you’re giving a gift to your future self. Imagine looking back at your photos 5, 10, or even 20 years from now. Maybe you’re flipping through your album on a rainy day, or maybe you’re showing the photos to your daughter or granddaughter as a reminder of the beauty and strength that runs in your family.
No matter the reason, those photos—and the feelings they capture—will always be there, like a little time capsule of confidence and self-love.
Cherishing the Moment
One of the most rewarding parts of my job is hearing from clients after their session. They tell me how they felt during the shoot, how they felt when they saw their images for the first time, and how they continue to feel every time they look at them.
I’ve had clients say their boudoir session reminded them of how beautiful they are, even after years of self-doubt. Others have said it was the first time they truly felt seen. And some simply tell me it was the most fun they’ve had in ages—and honestly, that’s just as meaningful.
These moments, these feelings—they’re what make boudoir so special. They’re what turn a photoshoot into a core memory.
Are You Ready to Create Your Core Memory?
If you’ve ever thought about booking a boudoir session, consider this your sign. Whether it’s to mark a milestone, celebrate a personal accomplishment, or just because you want to, this is your chance to create a memory you’ll cherish forever.
You deserve to feel beautiful. You deserve to feel confident. You deserve to have a moment that’s all about celebrating you.
And if you’re ready, I’d love to be the one to help you capture it.
xo,
Critsey