Hey there, beautiful!
Today, I want to talk about something I never thought I’d need to address—but lately, it’s become impossible to ignore. It’s a growing trend I’ve been seeing in the boudoir photography world, and honestly, it’s been sitting heavy on my heart. I feel it’s really important to bring it up, because it directly impacts you and the experience you deserve when booking a boudoir session.
So here’s the deal: some photographers are filling their websites, blogs, and social media feeds with AI-generated images or stock photos—and not telling you. As someone who has been shooting real women (like you!) for over a decade, I find this really concerning. And I think you deserve to know why this matters.
Real Clients Deserve Real Representation
Boudoir is personal. It’s vulnerable, intimate, empowering, and deeply emotional. When you visit my site or scroll through my Instagram, you’re seeing real women who have trusted me with their stories, their bodies, and their beauty. Every image I share is from a real session—with a real human—who said, “Yes, you can share my photo so others can see what this experience is like.”
Now imagine booking with a photographer because you fell in love with the images on their site… only to find out later that none of them are real clients. None of them are even real women. They’re computer-generated or pulled from a stock gallery. How can you trust someone who’s not even showing you their real work?
AI and Stock Photos Can Be Misleading
I totally get it—AI-generated images are everywhere right now, and some of them look incredibly convincing. But boudoir is not about perfection or fantasy. It’s about authenticity. When a photographer uses AI or stock photos to represent their work, they’re essentially selling you an illusion. And let’s be honest—your boudoir experience should be nothing but the real deal.
I’ve seen AI images that show impossibly smooth skin, flawless lighting, and unrealistic body proportions. While they might be “pretty” to look at, they set completely false expectations. A professional boudoir photographer knows how to light, pose, and direct you to bring out your unique beauty—not rely on a computer to fabricate it.
Trust Comes From Transparency
I want you to feel completely comfortable with the person you’re choosing to photograph such an intimate session. That kind of trust can’t be built on fake images. I believe in being 100% transparent. I’m proud to showcase my real work because I pour my heart and soul into every session. From curating the wardrobe to guiding each pose, I’m there with you every step of the way.
When you look through my galleries, you’ll see women of all shapes, sizes, ages, and backgrounds. These are real women who’ve celebrated their bodies, reclaimed their confidence, and given themselves the gift of self-love. That’s something no AI image can ever replicate.
You Deserve to See What You’re Actually Booking
Hiring a boudoir photographer isn’t just about pretty pictures—it’s about the experience, the connection, and the trust you place in someone to make you feel seen and celebrated. If a photographer can’t show you real results from real clients, how can you know what to expect?
Imagine buying a dress online because the photos looked amazing—only to receive something completely different when it arrives. That’s how it feels when someone misrepresents their portfolio. And with boudoir, that disappointment cuts even deeper because it’s not just about the product, it’s about how you feel.
Questions to Ask Before Booking
I want to arm you with some questions you can ask any boudoir photographer you’re considering. These will help you spot the red flags:
- Are the photos on your website from real client sessions?
- Do you have AI or stock photos on your website or social media?
- Do you edit your own work or use AI tools to generate images?
A professional, trustworthy photographer will welcome these questions and be proud to share their real work with you.
Don’t Settle for Less Than Real
Look, I know it can be intimidating to book a boudoir session. It takes courage to step in front of the camera and be vulnerable. That’s why it’s so important to choose someone who honors that vulnerability with integrity, honesty, and real skill.
If you’re investing in a luxury experience like boudoir, make sure it’s truly luxury—and not smoke and mirrors. You deserve better than AI illusions or someone else’s stock photos. You deserve to see the work of the person who will be capturing your own story.
And most importantly, you deserve to feel confident that what you see is what you’ll actually get.
If you ever have questions about my work, or want to see full client galleries, I’m always happy to share (with permission, of course!). My priority is making you feel safe, beautiful, and empowered every step of the way.
xo,
Critsey